Many people fear change. They set their life up as comfortable as possible and create barriers to prevent anything from growing or shifting. They want to grow, and progress in their lives and with their vision, but this fear of change unknowingly gets in their way.
I encourage my clients to step outside their comfort zone. To push into their fear. Fear is a phenomenal tool if you use it correctly to discover the next area of your life to push into… but getting over the fear of change, and the comfortable life is the first step.
Many people ask themselves “WHO AM I TO DO THAT?” They limit themselves and limit their dreams. By setting their sights low, and not stretching towards the bigger dreams and goals, they settle. They convince themselves that they CANNOT achieve more. That they ARE NOT capable of living a higher, better life. They even convince themselves that they DO NOT want anything more than what they already have, but it is a lie.
Deep in our personal identity lies the desire to be our best, to stretch past and beyond our limitations, to be more and do more. We have been told ego is a bad thing, but without ego we cannot step out of our primordial ooze into anything worth accomplishing. Ego is essential, but it must be paired with a high purpose, and a strong sense of commitment to give back to others and be of service.
How do you embrace change? How do you dream bigger? One day at a time. Success as a human-being is a matter of practice. Use your fear to discover areas of your life that you need to improve. Your health, your creative vision, your relationships, etc… Once you discover those spaces, make goals. Short term goals work best at first. 30 day goals to get in the practice of stretching into a bigger vision. Exercise for 30 days straight. Commit to asking out at least one woman every day for 30 days. Meditate for 30 days. Visit a new restaurant every day for 30 days. The possibilities are endless. And by regularly finding and creating these short term goals, you stay out of the greatest trap we all fall into… DESTINATION MENTALITY
Destination Mentality is that place we have all been in where you think everything will be better once you… get that new car, find that perfect woman, reach that ideal weight. It is the lie pushed upon us by society that there is an ultimate destination for us to reach and achieve, and then everything will be perfect, will fall into place, and we will finally be happy. The truth is to stay in the moment, stay connected to each day, challenge yourself to improve, step up in every area of your life that scares you, and you will discover that you are better today than you were yesterday, and you will be better tomorrow than you are today. Their is no destination, just a never ending goal to be your BEST self and live your BEST life NOW!!!!
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